Assumptions

Time to get something off of my chest. Something that has been particularly and acutely bothering me lately. Women and girls tend to make assumptions. Everyone makes assumptions. But females specifically seem to be under the impression that they know exactly what's going to happen in the future...when no one knows that for sure. They always refer to their future by saying WHEN they get married and WHEN they have kids. Not IF's, never if's, of course. We need to realize that yes, most people were meant for marriage and a family. Yes, it is a plausible option and sometimes the more likely one. That does not change the fact that it could also not happen. The point is we do not know and women need to sever this presumptuous outlook and just walk by the Spirit. There is nothing wrong with hopefully looking forward to a husband and a family someday. But do not try to swim in the uncharted waters of predicting our unpredictable God and His plans.